Day 2, Honor

We have all heard, Honor thy father and mother.
How about honor your spouse?
It's part of the marriage vows too.
Thanks Phil, we all hear them at weddings, say them at ours, but how quickly we forget?
Our society is very self driven, and honoring  person other than yourself does not come easy.
There are great tips and I'll end with this update to the grass is always greener.

"I would like to suggest a more positive spin: "The grass is always green where you water it."

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Day 1; Priorities

Philip challenges us to ponder our priorities for our marriage on Day 1.  And being a Pennsylvania.  Dutchman, born and raised, we are glass is half empty types.  Half empty with a crack and what little is in there is leaking on the ground.  I bring this up as Phil points out to Focus on the Positives to start.

This isn't a plea to put on rose colored glasses and pretend each is perfect. Think back to how you met, fell in love, and got married.  It wasn't focusing on the speck in your spouses eye, ignoring the log in your own.

The challenge is to make your marriage a priority.  With our fast paced lives, endless gadgets keeping us more connected in more ways, it's hard to prioritize.  I'd like to close with a quote:

"It's time to fight for your marriage; not to fight with your spouse."


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How to turn around in 10 days

I was blessed to review a great new book from Phillip Wagner. One of the cool things about Twitter, is a person I follow from a church in Oklahoma is friends with Phil who's a pastor in LA.

So, turn around what in 10 days you ask? How to Turn Around Your Marriage in Ten Days.

It is a great approach for our fast paced 21st century lives. In ten days you get thought provoking and challenging ideas to go from ok to great.

Join me over the next 10 days as I share my thoughts.

Click here for Book Trailer
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Day 8; Play

This was fascinating, play can lead us to learn our partners needs.  Often as adults, we forget the learning and therapeutic value of play.  I know I have.  It's so easy to keep the schedule full, grab another gadget, check email, the news, etc.

Phil says it well, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy, and Jack's marriage is in trouble.

It's easy to say we played when courting, can't let that evaporate.


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