Only guarantees in life are death and taxes. Or as someone said on a sitcom, death in Texas (the character wasn't real bright).
I've learned professionally that change is inevitable. If you wait long enough, the joke goes, the initiative you haven't adopted will change to another. I have a file cabinet full of meeting notes sort of proving this point.
It isn't easy, but necessary to change. Phil though pointed out the key is overcoming past hurts. Wow, that's so true. We all come into relationships with past hurts. Baggage is a new term. Need to lighten our load will allow meaningful change.
If the word change bugs you, try other words;
adaptable,
flexible,
etc.
Whatever it takes, as Phil says, develop getting past your past.
@PhilipWagnerLA
www.philipwagner.com
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